If you want to stop being labeled, you need to stop referring to labels, and not apply any to yourself. The reason why you are affected so deeply when people insist on calling you something or whatever else is because you insist on calling yourself something else. Rise above whatever stupid, petty labels. Don’t let other people’s perceptions of you define who you are, and for that matter, don’t apply labels to yourself or anyone else. Instead of worrying about what you are or are not, worry about what you can or cannot do, and then own that shit.